my brother once told me that guys and girls were never meant to be friends, only when they were couples said thing could happen. i mocked him and told him he was overreacting.
a few years later, i have come to the conclusion that he wasn't exaggerating. guys have proved me that they won't be your friend if you're not single. that happened many times with me, and they always made me feel like crap for thinking my friendship wasn't worth anything to these guys, but now i see the problem isn't me.
true friends will be there for you if you're single or you're not.
more than once i've met guys, became friends with them and when they found out i wasn't single, they told me that they weren't looking for friendship only.
what the heck, dude! you're only going to be friends with people that are not committed to someone? when did they invent that rule? sounds crazy to me, because friends are never too much, so what's the point of stop talking with someone JUST because they're not on the market anymore?
geez i will never understand. what happened with the old type of friendship? that didn't matter relationship status, but only the things you had in common?
i guess my only guy friends will be my boyfriend's mates and i should accept that already lol.
now, question. did you ever lose a guy friend because you weren't single?
enlighten me, please.
